imstuckinarut-astrology:

Expecting changeable, mutable and flighty types to be in exactly the same state you saw them last time, to pick up right where you have left off is unlikely because they will have morphed new personalities by then, experienced new things, had new thoughts and felt new emotions. If each time you see them, you experience their new state as a betrayal, then you will experience a lot of pain in relation to this. If you take them in their authenticity however, even if that means in their authentic flightiness, In their shifting phases, in their inconsistencies, then you spare them and yourself a lot of judgment and pain. See them for who they are, even if who they are changes from one minute to the next. Their authentic self might not look like your authentic self.